The Effortless Conversation System by Jon Sinn ebook download in PDF format (.pdf), or read online for free (plus videos). As I’ve been meeting new people recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about conversation. I want to be known as a woman who is easy to talk to, one who listens well and one who makes everyone at the table feel welcomed and significant. Don’t you want that, too? So today I’m sharing 6 steps to becoming a better, more gracious conversationalist.